Sigmund Freud called it “the most poignant loss” of his life. Actor Sean Connery termed it “a shattering blow.” Writer Norman Mailer likened it to “having a hole in your tooth. It’s a pain that can never be filled.”

The experience of losing a father – no matter when or how it occurs – tests the strength and resilience of a son. In the worst of circumstances, the loss can propel a son toward despondency; in the best, it can inspire in him a new appreciation for his life and loves, and move him with urgency to make the most of his remaining years.

Based on a landmark national survey of more than 300 men, and in-depth interviews with 70 others, FatherLoss describes how children, young adults, middle-aged men, and older men react differently to a father’s death. It is an extraordinary resource for anyone facing the death of a father, or still adjusting to such a loss that occurred years or even decades ago.