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Hospice of Chattanooga
| Children Mourning, Mourning Children | | written by: Doka, Kenneth J. | |
Based on the Hospice Foundation of America's second annual teleconference,
this book explores three basic themes in children's grief. Firstly, it maintains
that children are always developing; therefore their understanding of death
and their reactions to illness and loss are also multifaceted and constantly
undergoing change. Secondly, children grieve in ways that are both different
from and similar to adults. While they may need different therapeutic approaches
from their elders, each loss is different and the grief experience will be
affected by many of the same factors that affect adults. Thirdly, it holds
that they need significant support as they grieve. Talking to children about
loss and illness is too important to wait until a crisis; rather, it is essential
to provide opportunities to discuss loss in times that are not so emotionally
laden. This book aims to demonstrate that open communication between parents
and children will lead to skills and understanding that are essential to the
child for coping with loss and reaffirming that death is part of the process
of living. |
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